Satisfy a late night craving with this Parmesan Crusted Grilled Cheese. This 3 cheese grilled cheese (actually 4!) checks all the boxes with a crispy exterior and the ultimate cheesy interior and an easy cooking method!

On our many frequent trips to and from Indiana University, we got in the habit of timing our stops conveniently at our favorite gas station which conveniently is part of a huge dairy farm and cheese market.
Minutes later, we'd be in the car, bellies full of generous samples of aged gouda, extra sharp cheddar, sweet swiss and more to take home and use in recipes like our Homemade Mac 'n Cheese.
Also —they sell the best grilled cheese sandwich. One that is so good I vowed I would make my own version someday because I just couldn't get out of my head.
Who knew the perfect grilled cheese used to live in Indiana? 😉
What makes this recipe special?
I know —you're thinking anyone can make grilled cheese. And I totally agree but there are a couple of tricks to making an almost perfect grilled cheese (I say almost because perfection is a pretty high standard and my idea of a perfect grilled cheese might be different than yours).
Why this almost perfect grilled cheese is special:
- The crispy outside. A schmear of mayo (you won't taste it ) on the outside of the bread followed by a heavy handed sprinkling of fresh grated parmesan cheese makes for amazing texture and satisfying crunch.
- A simple cooking technique. The difference between a good grilled cheese sandwich and a great one boils down to one simple tool. A cast iron skillet with a lid.
- One great cheese blend. Read on to learn about the three cheeses inside that produce a thick layer of melty cheese with sharp and tangy flavor.
- It's the perfect partner to our tomato bisque. If you haven't tried it yet, I'm telling you...do it.
Ingredients
While the cheese selection is important, there are three key ingredients responsible for the crispy, slightly airy and flavorful exterior.
- Sourdough bread. A sturdy sourdough bread that isn't too thick (but also isn't too thin) makes for a top notch grilled cheese.
- Mayonnaise. A schmear of mayo —yup, mayo —on the outside of the bread is one of the secrets to a crispy flavorful crust.
- Fresh grated parmesan cheese. A heavy handed sprinkling of fresh grated parmesan cheese adds amazing texture and satisfying crunch.
Best cheese combo for grilled cheese
There's lots of debate about the best melting cheese for grilled cheese. This blend, to me, gives the biggest bang for your grilled cheese buck:
- New York sharp cheddar. A classic New York cheddar brings tangy flavor and lends that classic bright orange you want to see.
- Sliced gruyere. A classic fondue cheese, thinly sliced gruyere is perfect for grilled cheese thanks to its nutty flavor and texture.
- Dubliner. An Irish cheddar style cheese with a sophisticated cheddar flavor, surprisingly great melting properties and a thicker quality.
from my gram's
Grilled cheese + tomato soup and just like that... all's right with the world
-Josie + Nina
Step-by-step method
The grilled cheese building process as much methodical as it is creative. And don't let "methodical" scare you. It's cooking 101 methodical. Not 400 level physics class methodical.
Assemble
- Heat a 10" seasoned cast iron skillet over medium heat until the sides are hot to the touch but the pan shouldn't be smoking. (For tips on seasoning cast iron, be sure to check out my Cast Iron 101 post.)
- Stack two slices of bread on each other so that they match in shape (like they are when you pull them out of the package (see? Methodical).
- Lay them stacked on a cutting board and slather the top slice facing you generously with mayo.
Cook
- Sprinkle on a good amount of fresh grated parmesan [1]
- Remove the cheese and mayo coated top slice and set it aside.
- Layer cheese on the bottom slice in the following order (again: methodical):
- NY cheddar
- gruyere
- Dubliner
- Flip the whole sandwich over into the preheated pan. Quickly slather over mayo and a sprinkling of parm on the other side and then...cover the pan. [2]
- Wait a painful five minutes before flipping over for 3-5 minutes more.
You —yes you!—have just made an amazing grilled cheese sandwich. [3]
FAQ's
Grilled cheese is meant to be made with American cheese. Why don't you use it?
First, my husband would completely agree with you! Next, you go right ahead but promise me that you'll use a fresh deli cut American cheese.
Can I use butter instead of mayo?
You can but the texture will not be exactly the same and I'd watch the heat on your pan.
Cast iron skillets seem like such a pain to maintain just for grilled cheese. What else can I use?
You can use a good non-stick skillet with a lid but I don't recommend stainless for this recipe. And cast iron is easy to care for and you'll use it all the time to make things like cast iron skillet pizza.
Darn —I don't have a lid that matches my skillet. Now what?
Use the bottom of another skillet or pan and place it over the skillet. Just make sure it's large enough to rest on the edges of the skillet so that too much steam doesn't escape.
Helpful Tips
Here are some extra tips to help you successfully make this recipe right from the start:
Make ahead
You can make these sandwiches ahead of time and lay them on a rack set in a sheet pan. Refrigerate until you're ready to make them (no more than 4 hours ahead or so).
Storing / Reheating
Wrap cooked sandwiches in foil and then place in ziploc bags. Store up to two days. To reheat, place sandwiches on a rack set inside a sheet pan and bake for 10 minutes or so at 350˚.
Freezing
I haven't frozen grilled cheese but if you try it, I'd love to hear about your results!
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📖 Recipe
Parmesan Crusted Grilled Cheese
Equipment
- cast iron skillet with a lid
Ingredients
- 2 slices sourdough bread, preferably from a bakery
- 2 slices sharp cheddar cheese, I use Adam's Reserve from Costco
- 3 slices gruyere cheese, thinly sliced
- 2 slices Dubliner cheddar
- 1 Tablespoon real mayonnaise, I use Hellman's; more as needed
- 1 Tablespoon freshly grated parmesan cheese, no green can please
Instructions
- Heat a 10" seasoned cast iron skillet over medium heat until the sides are hot to the touch but the pan shouldn't be smoking. (For tips on seasoning cast iron, be sure to check out my Cast Iron 101 post.)
- Stack two slices of bread on each other so that they match in shape (like they are when you pull them out of the package.
- Lay the bread slices stacked on a cutting board and slather the top slice facing you generously with half of the mayo. You might need more depending on your bread size.
- Sprinkle on a good amount of fresh grated parmesan.
- Remove the cheese and mayo coated top slice and set it aside.
- Layer cheese on the bottom slice in the following order: NY cheddar, gruyere, Dubliner.
- Flip the whole sandwich over into the preheated pan. Quickly slather over mayo and a sprinkling of parm. Cover the pan.
- Wait a painful 5 minutes before flipping (make sure the bottom is golden brown and the cheese is starting to melt. Turn over, cooking for 3-5 minutes more while keeping the lid on the pan.
- Cut and make sure to photograph that big ole cheese pull!
Notes
About Lori Murphy
Lori has over 30 years in the food industry as a marketing strategist, culinary instructor and chef for three kids with discerning palates. As the chief content creator at Josie + Nina, Lori is dedicated to helping home cooks create food memories through fresh ingredients and Italian flavors.
Why use mayo instead of butter on a grilled cheese?
Mayo, believe it or not, doesn't burn as easily as butter, adds a tangy flavor and creates a super crunchy exterior to the bread. Plus, it spreads way easier and you don't have to melt butter😊
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I’m thinking if attending this with my friend Beth.. always room for more in my parties!!!
Ny mouth is watering just reading about this, can't wait to try using mayo, thanks for the tip.
It is magic I must say! And this comes from someone who doesn't put mayo on her sandwiches! Let me know what you think and thanks Barbara!
Lori, the best grilled cheese positively, undeniably ! The good sour dough bread with mayo and parmesan is what makes it.
Thank you
Right?! That combo is the secret sauce for the best grilled cheese sandwich! So happy you liked it Crystal!